你对孩子撒谎了吗？
Posted by baba on 04 Oct 2009 | Tags: Ella |
反正我是经常撒，记得小时候很痛恨大人们骗人，现在自己也变成那个样子了。
女儿很像我小时候，非常较真。真害怕有一天，她发现原来爸爸妈妈经常骗她，会怎么样。
不过，谎还是经常撒下去吧。比如说，每天晚上我都告诉Ella，10点钟必须上床睡觉，不管她在干什么，我都会熄灯。可是有时候真的超了10点，我也不会真的那么作，只是告诉她，还有5分钟到10点拉，快点儿！
不过很快这招就不能再用了，因为Ella已经开始学着认时间了。
Truth Is That Parents Lie To Kids: Scientific American Podcast
When I was pregnant, a friend gave me a book called Great Lies to Tell Small Kids. In it are gems like “wine makes mommy charming” and “men don’t go bald naturally, they like getting their hair cut that way.” Now, if you’re filled with horror at the notion of pulling a toddler’s leg like that, a new study in the Journal of Moral Education shows that parents regularly use deception to influence their kids.
